Please donate so that every foster child had a workbook
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If you're interested in making a bulk book donation, please get in touch with us at info@TheHelpingBooks.com. We have the capability to order books in large quantities from our publisher at a reduced rate, which can maximize the impact of your generous contribution.
All proceeds generated by THE HELPING BOOKS™ through the "My Name is NOT Fosterkid" series will be dedicated to the Fosterkid fund, ensuring each foster child receives books.
Let's embrace our shared responsibility to support and empower these children, bringing them hope and the tools they need to thrive on their unique journey.
Join us in creating a brighter future for fostering these children through the power of literature and support.
When you donate to THE HELPING BOOKS®, we will provide you with a tax-free receipt for your contribution. Additionally, you have the option to specify the state to which you would like your donation to be directed. This allows you to support foster children in a specific state of your choosing. Your generosity and support will directly impact the lives of these children, providing them with valuable resources and opportunities for growth.
Every safe adult is a Helper
Facts About Foster Children In Each State
Here are some general facts about foster care in the United States:
- Number of Children in Foster Care: The number of children in foster care varies from state to state. As of the latest available data from 2022, there were over 400,000 children in foster care nationwide.
- Age Distribution: Foster children come from various age groups. Some states may have a higher percentage of infants and toddlers in foster care, while others may have a larger number of older children and teenagers.
- Reasons for Entering Foster Care: Children enter foster care due to various reasons, including abuse, neglect, parental substance abuse, mental health issues, or domestic violence.
- Length of Stay: A child's time in foster care can vary. Some children may have short-term stays, while others may experience longer periods in the system.
- Adoption and Permanency: Adoption is one of the goals for many foster children. States have different adoption rates and policies regarding permanency for children in foster care.
- Education and Support: Foster children often face unique challenges in education and may require additional support. Educational outcomes and support services can vary across states.
- Transitioning to Adulthood: Older youth in foster care face the transition to adulthood and independence. States may have programs and resources in place to assist youth with this transition, including life skills training, education, and housing support.
The following statistics are according to 2019 national research and data of the U.S. foster care system:
- There were an estimated 423,997 children in foster care.
- 32% were in relative homes, and nearly half (46 percent) were in non-relative foster family homes.
- 55% had a case goal of reunification with their parents or primary caretakers.
- 47% of the children who left foster care were discharged to be reunited with their parents or primary caretakers.
- 40% of the children who left foster care were in care for less than one year.
- The median amount of time spent in care was 15.5 months.
- The median age of children entering care was 6.3 years.
- 52% were male; 48% were female
- 44% were White; 23% were Black or African American; 21% were Hispanic; 8% were Multi-racial; 2% were American Indian/Alaska Native; 1% were Asian; 1% were Unknown
- 37% of children find themselves in 2-3 different placements
- 52% of children in foster care will graduate high school; 3% will attend college
- 30% of nation’s homeless have been in foster care at some point in their life
Some children who enter foster care have experienced abandonment, mental injury, sexual abuse, physical abuse, neglect, denial of critical care, medical neglect or have been placed in other abuse situations. These children are then placed in a safe home and deemed a Child In Need of Assistance (CINA).
National Sources:
- AFCARS & Children’s Defense Fund – https://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/cb/afcarsreport22.pdf
- Children’s Rights – http://www.childrensrights.org/newsroom/fact-sheets/foster-care/
- Child Welfare – https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/factsheets/foster/
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Alabama
As of our knowledge cutoff in September 2021, there were approximately 5,000 children in foster care in Alabama. Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Alabama Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Alaska
As of our knowledge cutoff in September 2022, there were approximately 3,000 children in foster care in Alaska. Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Arizona
As of January 2023, there were approximately 12,000 children in foster care in Arizona.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Arkansas
As of May 2022, there were approximately 4,600 children in foster care in Arkansas.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
California
As of January 2023, there were approximately 55,000 children in foster care in California.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Colorado
As of January 2021, there were approximately 4,500 children in foster care in Colorado.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Connecticut
There were approximately 4,299 children in foster care in Connecticut.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Delaware
As of January 2021, there were approximately 430 children in foster care in Delaware.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Florida
As of January 2021, there were approximately 23,500 children in foster care in Florida.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Georgia
As of January 2021, there were approximately 11,000 children in foster care in Georgia.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Even if you can't foster children, you can still be a helper
Hawaii
As of January 2019, there were approximately 1,238 children in foster care in Hawaii.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Idaho
As of January 2019, there were approximately 1,818 children in foster care in Idaho.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Illinois
As of January 2021, there were approximately 16,000 children in foster care in Illinois.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Indiana
As of January 2021, there were approximately 13,000 children in foster care in Indiana.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Iowa
As of January 2023, there were approximately 5,000 children in foster care in Iowa.
Kansas
As of January 2021, there were approximately 6,900 children in foster care in Kansas.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Kentucky
As of January 2023, there were approximately 9,000 children in foster care in Kentucky.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Louisiana
As of January 2021, there were approximately 4,000 children in foster care in Louisiana.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Maine
As of January 2023, there were approximately 2,000 children in foster care in Maine.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Maryland
As of January 2023, there were approximately 4,000 children in foster care in Maryland.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Massachusetts
As of January 2021, there were approximately 10,000 children in foster care in Massachusetts.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Michigan
As of January 2021, there were approximately 14,000 children in foster care in Michigan.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
With child violence on the rise, Helpers are needed.
Minnesota
As of January 2021, there were approximately 8,600 children in foster care in Minnesota.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Mississippi
As of January 2021, there were approximately 4,000 children in foster care in Mississippi.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Missouri
As of January 2021, there were approximately 14,000 children in foster care in Missouri.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Montana
As of January 2021, there were approximately 3,000 children in foster care in Montana.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Nebraska
As of January 2021, there were approximately 3,000 children in foster care in Nebraska.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Nevada
As of January 2021, there were approximately 4,400 children in foster care in Nevada.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
New Hampshire
As of January 2021, there were approximately 900 children in foster care in New Hampshire.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
New Jersey
As of January 2021, there were approximately 6,000 children in foster care in New Jersey.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
New Mexico
As of January 2021, there were approximately 2,600 children in foster care in New Mexico.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
New York
As of January 2021, there were approximately 11,000 children in foster care in New York.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
North Carolina
As of January 2021, there were approximately 12,000 children in foster care in North Carolina.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
North Dakota
As of January 2023, there were approximately 1,500 children in foster care in North Dakota.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
One Helper can save a foster child. -Be the one.
Ohio
As of January 2023, there were approximately 16,000 children in foster care in Ohio.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Oklahoma
As of January 2022, there were approximately 9,500 children in foster care in Oklahoma.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Oregon
As of January 2021, there were approximately 8,600 children in foster care in Oregon.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Pennsylvania
As of January 2021, there were approximately 15,000children in foster care in Pennsylvania.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Rhode Island
As of January 2021, there were approximately 2,000 children in foster care in Rhode Island.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
South Carolina
As of January 2021, there were approximately 4,000 children in foster care in South Carolina.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
South Dakota
As of January 2021, there were approximately 1,200 children in foster care in South Dakota.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Tennessee
As of January 2021, there were approximately 7,000 children in foster care in Tennessee.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Texas
As of January 2021, there were approximately 28,600 children in foster care in Texas.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Utah
As of January 2021, there were approximately 1,600 children in foster care in Utah.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Vermont
As of January 2021, there were approximately 1,500 children in foster care in Vermont.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Virginia
As of January 2021, there were approximately 5,000 children in foster care in Virginia.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Helpers are the only way children can be saved
Washington
As of January 2021, there were approximately 10,000 children in foster care in Washington.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
West Virginia
As of January 2021, there were approximately 6,600 children in foster care in West Virginia.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Wisconsin
As of January 2021, there were approximately 7,000 children in foster care in Wisconsin.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Wyoming
As of January 2021, there were approximately 1,000 children in foster care in Wyoming.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
Washington DC
As of January 2021, there were approximately 2,500 children in foster care in Washington DC.
*Please note that this number may have changed since then, as foster care numbers can fluctuate over time. For the most current and accurate information, it is recommended to consult the Department of Human Resources or other relevant authorities.
To help foster children in your state you can...
BE A FOSTER PARENT
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
BE A RESPITE HOME FOR FOSTER PARENTS
Becoming a foster parent is a profound and impactful choice that has the potential to save a child's life and make a positive difference in the world. By opening your home and heart to a child in need, you provide them with a safe and nurturing environment, stability, and the opportunity to heal and thrive. Foster parents play a crucial role in supporting the well-being and development of children who have experienced adversity, trauma, or loss. Their love, care, and guidance can help shape a child's future, empowering them to reach their full potential and contribute to society. Foster parents contribute to building a more compassionate and supportive community by providing a loving and stable foundation for children in need. Their selfless act of fostering can have a lasting impact on the individual child and the world around them.
BE A RESPITE HOME FOR FOSTER PARENTS
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
BE A RESPITE HOME FOR FOSTER PARENTS
Being a respite home for foster parents is a valuable and supportive role in the foster care system. Respite homes provide temporary care for foster children, allowing foster parents to take short breaks or attend to personal matters while ensuring the child's continued well-being.
By offering respite care, you provide support and relief for foster parents who may face various challenges and responsibilities in caring for foster children. Your willingness to provide temporary care helps prevent burnout and promotes the overall stability of foster placements.
Suppose you are interested in becoming a respite home. In that case, contacting your local foster care agency or organization is essential to learn more about the requirements, training, and support available. Your willingness to offer respite care can make a significant difference in the lives of foster parents and the children they care for.
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
Becoming a caseworker for your state's Child Protective Services (CPS) is a noble and impactful career choice. As a caseworker, you will ensure the safety and well-being of children at risk of abuse or neglect.
Your responsibilities as a caseworker will include conducting investigations, assessing the safety of children in their homes, and providing support and intervention services to families in need. You will work closely with families, service providers, and community resources to develop and implement appropriate plans that promote the best interests of the children involved.
Your work will contribute to the protection of children, the preservation of families, and the promotion of healthy and nurturing environments.
By pursuing a career as a caseworker for your state's CPS, you will have the opportunity to advocate for children's rights, promote their safety and well-being, and contribute to positive and lasting change in the lives of families in your community.
REPORT CHILD ABUSE
REPORT CHILD ABUSE
BECOME A CASEWORKER FOR YOUR STATE'S CPS
If you suspect or witness child abuse, taking immediate action and reporting it to the appropriate authorities is essential. Reporting child abuse is a crucial step in protecting the well-being and safety of children. Here's what you can do:
- Call emergency services or your local police department if the child is in danger or requires immediate medical attention.
- Contact your state's Child Protective Services (CPS) agency. CPS is responsible for investigating reports of child abuse and neglect. You can find the contact information for your state's CPS agency online or in the phone directory.
- Provide detailed and accurate information about the incident or situation. Include relevant details, such as the child's name, age, location, and a description of the abuse or neglect you observed or suspected.
- If you're unsure whether your concerns warrant a report, it's better to err on caution and report your suspicions. The authorities will assess the situation and determine the appropriate course of action.
Remember, reporting child abuse is a responsible and necessary action. Registering your concerns can help ensure the safety and well-being of a child in need.
PARENTING CLASSES
REPORT CHILD ABUSE
SEEING A THERAPIST
Every parent should take parenting classes. Parenting classes are educational programs designed to provide parents with knowledge, skills, and resources to enhance their parenting abilities and promote positive parent-child relationships. These classes offer valuable information on various aspects of child development, effective discipline strategies, communication techniques, and problem-solving skills.
Here are some critical points about parenting classes:
- Purpose: Parenting classes aim to support parents in their role by providing them with practical tools, strategies, and insights to navigate the challenges and joys of raising children.
- Topics Covered: Parenting classes cover many issues, including child development, age-appropriate expectations, effective communication, positive discipline techniques, building resilience, fostering healthy relationships, managing stress, and self-care for parents.
- Formats: Parenting classes can be offered in different forms, such as in-person workshops, online courses, support groups, or individual counseling sessions. Professionals, such as psychologists, social workers, or parenting educators, may facilitate them.
- Benefits: Participating in parenting classes can have several benefits, including increased parenting knowledge and skills, improved parent-child relationships, enhanced communication and problem-solving abilities, reduced parenting stress, and a sense of support and community.
- Accessibility: Parenting classes are often available through community centers, schools, hospitals, nonprofit organizations, and online platforms. Some courses may be offered for free or low cost, while others may require enrollment or registration.
- Target Audience: Parenting classes are beneficial for new parents seeking guidance and support and experienced parents who want to enhance their parenting skills or address specific challenges they may be facing.
It's important to note that parenting classes are not a judgment or criticism of parenting abilities but rather an opportunity for growth and learning. They can provide valuable resources and support for parents, ultimately benefiting the well-being and development of their children.
SEEING A THERAPIST
REPORT CHILD ABUSE
SEEING A THERAPIST
A therapist can be a valuable tool in various aspects of life, including parenting and recovering from trauma. Here are some ways in which therapy can be beneficial:
- Parenting Support: Therapy can provide parents with guidance, techniques, and strategies to navigate parenting challenges. Therapists can help parents develop practical communication skills, manage behavioral issues, establish healthy boundaries, and enhance the parent-child relationship.
- Trauma Recovery: Therapists specialize in helping individuals process and heal from traumatic experiences. They can provide a safe and supportive environment to explore and address the impact of trauma, develop coping skills, manage symptoms of trauma-related disorders (such as post-traumatic stress disorder), and work towards healing and recovery.
- Emotional Regulation: Therapy can help individuals develop emotional regulation skills, allowing them to understand better and manage their emotions. This can be particularly helpful for parents, as it enables them to respond to their children's emotions in a supportive and constructive manner.
- Self-Care and Well-being: Therapy can assist individuals in prioritizing self-care and maintaining their overall well-being. This is important for parents who may often put their needs aside while caring for their children. Therapists can help individuals identify self-care practices, set boundaries, manage stress, and cultivate resilience.
- Relationship Enhancement: Therapy can improve communication and conflict resolution skills, essential in parenting and other relationships. Therapists can facilitate discussions, provide insights, and offer tools to foster healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
It's worth noting that therapy is a collaborative process, and the effectiveness of therapy depends on the individual's willingness to engage in the process actively and their compatibility with the therapist. Suppose you believe therapy could benefit you in parenting or trauma recovery. In that case, seeking a qualified therapist who specializes in the specific areas you wish to address is recommended.